re-syu-mey
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Dahil gagraduate ka na, eto ang aking ilang resume writing tips kung pers time kang gagawa (at ilang preparasiyon bago isumite ang bakunawa)-- isang napaka-importanteng advice mula sa isang ekspertong kaibigang na ang ngalan ay NERY RONATAY.
1. Plantsahin ang resume. Hindi ito labanan ng kapal ng papel, kundi kung paano mo pina-package sarili mo. Pag-isipang mabuti kung nakarating ka na sa fourth page.
2.Mag-invest sa magandang papel at printer, at pumili ng behave na font (Times New Roman, Trebuchet, Arial..). Anong mensahe mo naman kung ang font mo ay Magnetto at Monotype Corsiva, aber?
3. Ang resume ay hindi gamot. BAWAL ANG GENERIC. Araling mabuti ang job description at i-tailor dito ang resume. Kung hindi mag swak, baka hindi mo dapat aplayan.
4. Wag isnabin ang mga volunteer works mo. Malaki ang sinasabi sa pagkatao mo kung anong bagay pinagvo-volunteer-an mo. Kaya kung estudiyante ka pa, mag-volunteer at maging masigla sa extra curriculars para may laman ang fresh na fresh mong CV.
5. General cleaning ng Facebook. Ok kung private ka, pero puwede mo naman i-public yung mga bagay na mas makakadagdag pogi points sayo, halimbawa mga Likes and Interest. Iwasan ang bayolente at mga misleading na Pages na nila-like mo. Sige nga, anong impression ang iiwanan mo kung ang FB Interest mo ay "I Heart Osama" at "Kimerald: Do or Die"? At ang public pictures mo ay humihila ka ng patay na daga at links mo ay "rape" website? In short, make your FB your marketing friend.
6. Now that we are at it, i-google ang sarili (at ang email mo, you'll be surprised). Linisin ang digital footprint. bakita makita na internet troll ko o basher ka ni Sharon Cuneta.
7. Eto pa, gawing friendly ang username ng email address. Kung ang email mo ay wanker4ever@yahoo.com or radioactive_pekpek@hotmail.com-- palitan! Humanap ng hindi tunog mental.
8. Ang resume ay hindi slumbook. Alisin ang mga clutters: pangalan ng magulang, hair color/body weight/height (makikita naman nila sa interview, unless may physical requirement).
9. Ang goal ng cover letter: AKITIN MO AKO. Ang cover letter mo ay dapat level lang ang haba pero dito mo sinasabi kung bakit dapat kang pag-interesan. Walang fast rule sa tenor/dating/tunog/atake ng pagkakasulat ng resume, DEPENDE yan sa nature ng org na inaaplayan. Mas may leeway sa creative industries. Eto lang, when in doubt, be safe.
10. Unless hingin, hindi required na mag-attach ng barangay clearance, "good moral character," endorsement ni meyor, transcript/diploma, most punctual certificate, etc. Pero dapat ready siya lalo kung dumating sa interview at hingin sayo. Ang prinsipyo, pag di hiningi, hindi kailangan.
11. Kumodak ng bongga. Tandaan, ang picture sa resume ay hindi parang passport na hindi ka pede ngumiti. Wag gumamit ng glamour shot (mukha kang mag-a-audition sa bikini open) or stolen shot (ano, kiber-kiberan look?).
12. Maging grammar at spelling Nazi. Kung hindi confident, ipabasa sa mas marunong. Marami ang nare-reject dahil hindi ma-spell ng maayos pangalan ng kumpanya. Mag-ingat, kung sabay-sabay na magsi-send, i-track ng mabuti dahil baka magpalitan ang pangalan ng kompanyang inaaplayan mo.
13. Oo nga pala, sa cover letter mo, wag mo nang uulitin yung mga detalye sa CV mo, unless iha-highlight mo or you'll have a new way of way of saying it. Halimbawa, imbes na "In 2012, I earned a degree in Accounting from so so and so" gawin mong "Earning a degree in Accounting has taught me the values of diligence and trust"
14. Ang reference ay dapat familiar sayo: puwedeng teacher, coach, club adviser, or elder ng mga pinagkakaabalahan mo. Ang mahalaga, kinuha mo permiso nila at merong silang contact details.
15. Magdasal ng super. Kung may ini-stalk ka talagang job, araw-araw dasalan. Mag-visualize na kinakamayan ka ng boss at sinasabi sayo na "welcome to _______ (FITB)." I-claim ito, at magpa-advance thank you. And everytime na naiisip mo ang job, feel good about it, yung tipong it's not a question kung makukuha mo ba ang job o hindi, but KELAN mo ito makukuha. Remember, the universe is fulfilled when it makes your dream come true.
i-rest (1st love)
you've come to me unexpectedly
and i became your worst nightmare.
you are good and sweet loving
while i'm bad and intimidating.
we started as good friends
and ended up as cute lovers.
never i did considered it love
but pure infatuation at first.
since then we both play music
and share every beat of a song.
they said we're perfect for each other
and surely we will meet such forever
but then I came to a crucial state
where i began doubting myself,
if i can still stand this relationship
coz your love is too much loving
i asked a little space, so i can discern
i beg for you to wait, so i can prepare
though it is hard for you, still you said Ok
soon, it lead to hatred and indifference
you love me too much
and you cried the whole night
coz i can't repent what i've done
to you and to your whole life
it's been how many years since then
but you're still hurting and waiting.
i am no longer the same as before
now scared & lost the one you adore
you're friends loves and protects you
they don't even want me inches from you
they call me dumb & unworthy of your love
guess they're right for setting you aside
i am sincerely sorry, forever i'll be sorry
the wasted time, the broken promises
the love and compassion you've given
it was not worthy at all.
Thank You for not letting me down
despite the difficulties and broken hearts
i do not know what's good to say now
just want you to know, I Love You
YOU ARE MY FIRST LOVE
She's a good girl, loves her mamaLoves Jesus and America tooShes a good girl, crazy 'bout ElvisLoves horses and her boyfriend too
And I'm a bad boy 'cause I don't even miss herI'm a bad boy for breakin her heart
And I'm free, free fallin'Yeah I'm free, free fallin'
SORRY AND SEE YOU WHEN I SEE YOU!
Natuto na ko!
and i was never wrong, at least today you already see how worthy i am in many ways
i am bad and i am perfectly good at it, you still don't know how fierce and wild i am
sorry but i really mean it, it's not for you to suffer but to realize and for you to discern
how dare you to accuse me of loving coz of money, i am richer than you and your guys
in the first place i loved you before thinking you'll be able to give me that little amount of love
that small ounce of genuine love and care that i am longing to experience in the real life
however, you fail me but hope you see i never leave you, and i've learned a lot from that
honestly, i don't know what to say now, it's all up to you to bring back to what has loss
just keep in mind that whatever happened i never leave you, you're the one who betrayed me
i will always be here, i may not be the same like before, but i will be true to you until the end
thank you for letting me change for the better and how i wish i could tell you this personally
thank you indeed for making me better and for keeping me stronger, i owe these to you
maybe i still like you but not as much as i like and love you very much going back to the past
thank you again, that for once in my life you let me took the risk in love though it didn't last
of course i can also say that you're lucky too to have me and i will never ever come back
i would not be doing it again coz that was all enough, i am too scared already to take the risk
you'll be the only person and the the last to do such thing on me, i will not let it happen again
just want you to know that loving is not easy, and as one friend told me, never played with love
it's really hard to be ignored and to feel unloved while you keep on loving and loving and loving
you're the most worst possible person to love, but darn, i was able to love you!
you've cause a lot of troubles already a long time ago but it was not an issue anymore
as a matter of fact i am thankful to you for letting me down, see i'm stronger and better
but i am not as brave as i am before, still i will always be here for you to count on
and if you think this is already goodbye, for me this is not yet the end of everything
you've been one of the the worst and the best part of my entire living, it will remain here <3
"siguro namate ko man talaga an pagpadangat mong totoo,
kaya lang kulang kumpara sa kakadikit na hinahagad ko."
#SNS Trending
I fully understand that these sites are really entertaining and will ease the boring segments of your day. This may be subjected to individuals who mostly stays at home and got nothing to do because it's vacation. And since tumbang preso, tagu-taguan, piko, pitik bulag and etc. are extinct/alien games already, most of us resorted to the what the internet has to offer. However, in my case I live up my day in this freakin' effin useless virtual world, the only things that were real are those foods and liquids I intake.
Nagsisimula palang ang araw
Twitter na ang maririning na sigaw
Matapos lang maghugas ng katawan
Pangangati sa updates, magsisilbing agahan
Sa kainan kapag tanghalian
Instagram ang nasa hapag-kainan
Pagkuha ng litrato ng kung ano-ano
Abala sa masarap na pagsubo ng adobo.
Buong hapon di man lang nasinagan ng araw
Kuntento na sa computer na may makulay na ilaw
Ni pagpunta sa kubeta ay nagiging madalang
Nalilimutan ang oras na dapat pinagyayaman
Hindi man lang namalayan gumagabi na pala
Masyadong abala sa mga ilusyong nakikita
Gutom na ang tiyan at mainit na ang kinauupuan
Ilang oras ba namang babad sa kawalang kwentahan
Paulit-ulit at di nagbabago sa loob ng ilang araw
Hanggang sa makita mo ang sarili mong nahihirapan
Di kana makahinga, di kana makaalis dahil adik kana
Sige pagpatuloy mo yan at magiging buhay mo na yan
BUHAY NA WALANG KATUTURAN
PURO LANG KACHURVAHAN
PANAY ANG MGA KA-ANEKAN
GUSTO MO BA YAN?
*Darn* I don't want this kind of life. I don't like having this as a habit and as a way of living. Please stop me from being saturated by these media materials. It takes away my life and the room for me to develop and enrich my self. *Darn Darn Darn* I know it's not yet too late to change. Good for me to realize this thing so early.
I'm not saying that Social Networking Sites are bad., but of course too much of any thing is bad. Let's just use this social networking sites for the betterment of thy self and everyone. Let's be critical. Think before we click, and click what we only seek.
shutang inang power ranger
this
is
a
sh*t
post
Kahapon habang papauwi ako galing sa belabed university (nagccomplete palang ng clearance), sumakay ako ng van para naman mas kumportable kahit medyo may kamahalan. Nag-uumapaw ang happiness ko sapagkat madami akong nakatagpo at nakakwentuhan na matagal ko ng di nakikita.
Sa kasamaang palad ang happiness na iyon ay di nag last until the end nang may isang lasing na power ranger (foreigner) na may kasamang mukhang matronang pokpok na pinay na bababe ang sumakay din. Gusto pa sanang tumabi sa akin pero nagdesisyong umupo nalang sa aking likuran.
*Luntian* akala ko kung anong magalaw, *shutang ina* nagchuchuvaneknek (finger-licking good) na ang dalawa. Di ko na pinansin kasi lasing naman, hanggang sa nagttrash talk na yung power ranger at ang babastos na ng mga salitang ginagamit. *nakikita ko sila mula sa front mirror*
power ranger: ah that place sucks, but there's a lot of virgin faces!
matronabels: no honey, they were just there to have fun
power ranger: oh come on, they are just there to fuck around
*what the F*
matronabels: sssh don't talk like that, you're already drunk
power ranger: i am not drunk you dick sucker, you're face is not virgin anymore
matronabels: your girlfriend might get angry if you tell the same to her
power ranger: shut up, i give you 100 euro to follow me, so don't stop me, buy me a coffee
matronabels: okay okay i give you freedom, manay sarong coffee man
*nag-iinit na ang ulo ko* letsugas para lang sa 100 euro na halos katumbas lang ng 6,000 nagpapaalipin ka, *packing-tape* tama na at wag nyo ko hayaang sumabog
matronabels: be careful it's hot honey
power ranger: mmmn this taste good what this?
matronabels: coffee honey, it's kopiko
power ranger: mmmmn *while touching the lower part of the matrona* oooh
*lang ya talaga di pa tumitigil*
matronabels: honey baka matapon sakin *natapunan na talaga sa hita* shit sabing mainit, it's hot
power ranger: hahahaha no it's not hot, look you're wet already
matronabels: yes i'm wet, hahaha be careful honey you want another coffee
power ranger: *touching again the matrona's body* aaah pull it down *natapunan uli*
matronabels: shit talaga sabing mainit, honey i said it's hot can't you see *walk out palabas*
power ranger: then go leave, i don't care to you whore
*Shutang ina talaga di na ko ni respeto* bat kasi ang tagal ng ibang pasahero. Until may mga sumakay na mga matatanda, pero yung matrona nasa labas lang nagpapatuyo. Habang yung foreigner naman pakanta kanta lang tapos biglang may sumakay na dalagita at biglang dinilaan sa tagiliran sa bandang may puwet *sumigaw yung babae* *nagalit ng kaunti* tapos wala na di na nagreact yung babae. *Animal talaga* pati yung babae nakakainis parang wala lang nangyari.
Nang papaalis na yung van... Nagsuot na ko ng headset para matigil na ang mga napapakinggan ko at itutulog ko nalang. Bago paman ako makapaglagay ng headset nagsalita yung power ranger...
power ranger: come on get those headset on, oooh i'm cumming *looking towards me*
Wala na, napuno na talaga ako. Alam nyo na ang mga sumunod na nangyari at walang nakapigil sakin. LOL Paubusan to ng english at lakasan ng loob kahit malaki sya sakin. Hanggang sa natahimik na ang lahat. Nilagay ko na ang headset ko at nilakasan ang vulume tapos natulog na. *di ko na alam kung ano na nangyari dun sa power ranger* Mga ilang minuto na, i can feel his knee on my back, magalaw parin. Inalis ko yung headset ko.
power ranger: stop the car, stop the car i'm going to pee.
ako: NOOO! don't stop the car, if you want to pee, wet on your pampers. LOL *natatawa na ko*
power ranger: please stop the car or else i'm gonna pee on this cup *nilabas yung pinagkapehan nya*
*the car stops* ang tagal nya umihi, kaya itinulog ko nalang uli. Naririnig ko yung mga matatanda kinakausap yung matrona. Italyano raw ang nationality at pasensya na raw kasi hungkag na ang ulo nu kasi lagi may kainuman. *Ahem ahem italyano pala* Tinext ko yung ate ko kasi marunong sya magsalita ng Italian, tinanong ko kung anong mga mura sa sa italyano.
Nang pababa na ko ng van di talaga ako nagpapigil, nagpahabol pa ako.
ako: you PORKA PUTANA! (son of a bitch) *sabay tulak ng pinto ng van*
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Naku naku nag-init lang talaga ang ulo ko, gusto ko man magalit dun sa matrona kaya lang tingin ko ginusto nya naman yun. Nakakainis lang kasi may mga ganitong mga Pilipino parin na nagpapakababa para lang sa pera. Yung mga matatanda tuwang tuwa pa dun sa power ranger, di man lang nila narerealize na binababoy na sila in a way. Binastos bastos na, tinapon na ng kape, pinagsamantalahan na, binaboy na, di na nirespeto, pero yung mga kasakay ko at lalo na yung mga matrona parang wala lang.Hay naku naku sumakay nga ako ng Van para iwas stress, mas lalo tuloy ako na-stress, di na rin naman ako bumaba kasi last trip na yun, kung jeep o coaster bus naman mas lalo lang stress at haggard pa.
Hay ewan, bakit kay rami paring Pilipino na takot at di kayang ipaglaban ang sarili. At masyadong duwag kalabanin ang dayuhan na kahit mali na ang ginagawa, imbes na magalit natutuwa pa. *packing-tape na buhay to oh* Ayoko na nai-stress lang ako alalahanin.
Hay ewan, bakit kay rami paring Pilipino na takot at di kayang ipaglaban ang sarili. At masyadong duwag kalabanin ang dayuhan na kahit mali na ang ginagawa, imbes na magalit natutuwa pa. *packing-tape na buhay to oh* Ayoko na nai-stress lang ako alalahanin.
THE END
La la la Mraz
i wish i could sing like Jason Mraz, singing this 2 songs just for you
coz you'll always be the girl i ever dream of ...
Through timeless words and priceless pictures
We'll fly like birds not of this earth
And tides ‒ they turn ‒ and hearts disfigure
But that's no concern when we're wounded together
And we tore our dresses and stained our shirts
But it's nice today. Oh, the wait was so worth it.
and the girl that i would like to live up with the rest of my happy times.
I don't wanna be someone who walks away so easily
I'm here to stay and make the difference that I can make
Our differences they do a lot to teach us how to use
The tools and gifts we got yeah, we got a lot at stake
And in the end, you're still my friend at least we did intend
For us to work we didn't break, we didn't burn
We had to learn how to bend without the world caving in
I had to learn what I've got, and what I'm not
And who I am
well this is only a dream coz i can't actually sing very well or even hit the right note
but i can surely make you fall in happiness and make the wait worth doing.
non-believer lang po
Atheism is, in a broad sense, the rejection of belief in the existence of deities. In a narrower sense, atheism is specifically the position that there are no deities. Most inclusively, atheism is simply the absence of belief that any deities exist. Atheism is contrasted with theism, which in its most general form is the belief that at least one deity exists.
-Wikipedia
Many people label or assume I must be an atheist who hates and rejects religion. Well actually that is not the case. I proclaim myself as only to the ground of non-believers.
However I do admit, I went through many difficulties to the point I did go to an anti-religion phase in my life.
I just hate how many people, especially here in the Philippines, claimed to be religious behaved. I find the arguments against religion very compelling, and I thought that being an atheist/non-believer is a sign of being intellectually “strong” (of course I enjoy the smug feeling that I am better than the fools who believed.)
As a matter of fact, as I grew older, I stopped being an anti-religious.
I just hate how many people, especially here in the Philippines, claimed to be religious behaved. I find the arguments against religion very compelling, and I thought that being an atheist/non-believer is a sign of being intellectually “strong” (of course I enjoy the smug feeling that I am better than the fools who believed.)
As a matter of fact, as I grew older, I stopped being an anti-religious.
Maybe one reason is that I achieved a better understanding of the arguments for and against religion. I tried to be rational and after reading and grasping arguments put forth by thinkers such as Aquinas, Descartes, Marx, and others, as well as the lectures in my Philosophy of Religion class, I find it difficult to dismiss completely the idea that God or a Supreme/Higher Being, as I prefer to call Him, exists.
Another reason is that I achieved a greater degree of personal maturity and also intellectual maturity, I hope. I am still irritated at the way some allegedly religious people behave. But I can now distinguish between a belief and those who claim to hold that belief. I do oppose those who use religion to justify their evil, their hatred and their prejudices. But I oppose them because they are evil–not because they claim to be religious.
In all honesty my religious beliefs are not settled yet. I have never had a definitive religious experience that convinced me of the truths of faith. I cannot believe just because some person in a fancy costume waves a sacred book around and tells me it is true. I cannot believe just because most people do.
In all fairness, I do want to believe. I would prefer a meaningful reality in which the wicked are brought to task, the good are duly rewarded and an afterlife awaits us all. I want that very much. But, I know that what I want (to believe as “true”) and what is true are two distinct matters.
At this point, I reject the hateful dogmatism of the extreme atheist and the fanatic theist. But, I do not really know what I believe. Of course, neither do most people. When I talk to people about their faith and their God, I observed that they tend to speak empty words and have no real understanding of what they claim to believe. Worse is, they often seem completely uninterested in learning anything about their alleged faith. It does strike me as ironic when they smugly judge me for my lack of faith when I am far more interested in what they believe than they are.
In all honesty my religious beliefs are not settled yet. I have never had a definitive religious experience that convinced me of the truths of faith. I cannot believe just because some person in a fancy costume waves a sacred book around and tells me it is true. I cannot believe just because most people do.
In all fairness, I do want to believe. I would prefer a meaningful reality in which the wicked are brought to task, the good are duly rewarded and an afterlife awaits us all. I want that very much. But, I know that what I want (to believe as “true”) and what is true are two distinct matters.
At this point, I reject the hateful dogmatism of the extreme atheist and the fanatic theist. But, I do not really know what I believe. Of course, neither do most people. When I talk to people about their faith and their God, I observed that they tend to speak empty words and have no real understanding of what they claim to believe. Worse is, they often seem completely uninterested in learning anything about their alleged faith. It does strike me as ironic when they smugly judge me for my lack of faith when I am far more interested in what they believe than they are.
To end this dispute and reasoning, let me leave you a question...
Will that make an individual amoral and less human if he or she is a non-believer?
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