Manila can be an intimidating city for a newcomer. It doesn't have to be. Follow these 10 tips on how to look like a local and pretty soon people will be calling you "Chip" or "Te."

1. How to talk to strangers

In Manila, it’s all about balancing familiarity and respect.

Address men as “Boss," “Chip” (chief), “Kuya” (Tagalog for older brother), “Pogi” (handsome) or “Pare.”

When speaking to ladies, call them “Miss.” But replace the short “i” with a long one, so that it sounds like “Meees."

Or just call them “Te,” which is the abbreviated word for ate (Tagalog for older sister).

Makes no sense? You're fitting in already.

2. How to ask for the bill at restaurants

First, raise your hand to get the attention of the server.

When you’ve finally made eye contact, raise your other hand and draw a rectangle in the air by forming triangles with the tips of your index fingers and thumbs touching.

Draw them out apart, snapping shut a rectangle as you shut the index fingers and thumbs of the same hand together.

As you do this, say “chit” loudly enough for the server to hear you.

Pronunciation is key here. You don't want to insult the chef.

3. How to ride a jeepney

Though you can hail the Philippines' most popular form of city transportation from just about any point on the road, hopping on at proper jeepney stops has advantages. You have a better chance of grabbing the jeep’s prime real estate: the seat farthest from the driver, right next to the entry in the back.

Sit yourself there and wait until the jeep starts to fill up with riders. Then pay. Never mind that people will have to practically crawl over you to get to their seats.

From this seat, you not only get to exit quicker, you get to experience the thrill of having passengers in middle seats pass your fare to the driver for you.

Hold your money out to the passenger beside you and say “Bayad.” Don't worry, your fare will get to the driver, who watches the whole process from his panoramic rearview mirror.

Should you be seated somewhere in the middle and money is passed to you, take it and pass it on to the next passenger.

To really fit in with locals, pretend to be asleep (hold the handrail hanging from the ceiling and then rest your head, facedown) or look out your side window and pretend to be lost in thought.

Feel free to stare at people, just don’t get caught doing it.

When there’s room beside you, always shift yourself nearer the entrance. There's no such thing as personal space in a jeepney.

When you’re near your destination, shout “Para!” and quickly head for the opening.

4. How to speak

Ask for things by using brand names instead of their actual names. Like Coke for soda, Colgate for toothpaste and Xerox for photocopy.

Should you forget a word mid-sentence, say “ano” or “kwan” in its place. Pinoys will understand you.

If you need to get someone's attention, just shout “Psst!” If unsuccessful, use the more urgent “Psst-huy!”

You might also want to learn a bit of Bekinese. Bekinese is traditionally used by homosexuals, but everybody -- men, women, gay, straight -- can speak a word or two of Bekinese.

Because Bekinese incorporates global pop culture into Tagalog, it makes conversations more fun, lively and entertaining.

For instance: "Pawis Hilton" means sweaty; "Pawis" is sweat in Tagalog and sounds close to Paris.

Or you can say "Antokyo" when you’re sleepy. "Antok" is Tagalog for sleepy and its last syllable is the same as the first of Japan’s capital.

5. How to find your seat inside the cinema

Act like a shark in deep water. Put your hands flat against each other in front of you, like a stealthy fin moving through the sea.

This action will inform the ocean of people that you're coming through. Be sure to scrunch your shoulders up a bit and your neck down a little, decreasing your size and thus causing less disturbance.

Don't forget to whisper "Excuse me" and "Sorry," alternately and in succession.

6. How to point at things

Use your mouth. Pucker it toward the direction of the referred item.

7. How to eat

Meals are a celebration in the Philippines. Very few eat alone and dining is almost always done family-style, with all dishes shared.

Should it happen that you want your own meal and it arrives first (Selfish brute!) offer some to your companions.

More often than not, they’ll say no, and encourage you to go ahead and start. So go ahead and start.

Utensils are always spoon and fork, not knife and fork. Hold down the food with your fork, use your spoon to cut it. Put the piece of food on top of rice, then scoop it up.

Always be ready for a midday snack.

And don't grab the last piece. Pinoys shy away from picking up the last piece of anything. Wait until you’re sure no one is taking it before expressing polite interest in that last piece of fried chicken.

8. How to take self-portraits

Though the photo would be far nicer if you got someone else to take it, things aren't always done that way here. Blurry close-up shots are often preferred.

To achieve the perfect Pinoy angle, extend your camera arm in front of you, a little toward the outer side of the arm’s shoulder. Raise arm to a 45-degree angle so that the camera is pointing downward.

This is done particularly well by couples on dates.

9. How to pose for photos

If you must let someone else take your photo, a simple smile won't do.

Instead, make an “L” sign using the index finger and thumb of one hand. With palm facing in, place your chin in the space between the thumb and index finger so that the latter goes up to the cheekbone and the thumb supports the jawline.

Slap on your goofiest grin.

10. How to text

The Philippines is a nation of texters. So text at every opportunity: waiting in line, on the bus or walking. Always text, never call.

And be sure to use Jejenese, the prevailing SMS language.

Practitioners of Jejenese are called Jejemon. They use "z" in place of "s," add "h" where they can, make minimal use of vowels and disregard rules of capitalization and punctuation.

For instance: “mztah na” is Jejenese for “kamusta na,” which is “how are you” in Tagalog.

You can blame defective keyboards, or the need to be unique.
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Reposted from CNNgo after I laughed so hard. :)

Ika-dalawa na pala ng Mayo, tamad parin ako! Ano bang bago dito?! Hindi na ako nasanay sa sarili ko. Sa tinagal tagal ng panahon, hasang hasa na ang galing ko sa pagiging tamad at batugan. Kaya nga minsan naniniwala na ako sa paulit-ulit na sermon saakin ng aking tiyahin; "Ay ewan sayo, sinong niloko mo? Sa tamad mong yan alam ko ngayon palang na hindi kana aasenso." Shutang ina kung di ka lang living thing matagal na kitang pinaanod sa Bicol river.

*Hmmmmn sabagay ultimo pagsulat dito sa blog ko ay tinatamad ako. Ang pangako kong jogging sa sarili ko hanggang ngayon drawing abot isang kilometro. Pati pag-upload ng mga litrato sa Facebook, iniisip ko palang nabuburyong na agad ako. Yung matagal ng hinihintay na video na pina-edit sakin hanggang ngayon raw video parin. At ang pinakamalalang kinatatamaran ko, ANG PAGHAHANAP NG TRABAHO.

Aaminin ko, takot talaga akong ma-reject. Ewan basta ang sama sa pakiramdam, masakit pa kapag ang puso ko ang nasaktan dahil sa pag-ibig. Anyway, di naman sa di talaga ako naghahanap ng mapgtatrabahuhan, nagsubmit narin ako ng tigtatatlong copy ng resume sa ilang kumpanya dito sa Bicol, sa Manels pati rin International Organization kinapalan ko na. Yun nga lang, ni isa wala pang nagpaparamdam. Kita mo na, kahit nandito lang ako sa bahay may nagagawa rin naman ako. Pero hindi tulad ng effort a ibinubuhos ng mga kaibigan ko na ngayon ay sinusubukang hanapin ang swerte sa ka-Maynilaan, ang effort ko kakatiting lang. Ano ba naman kasing magagawa ko, eh dalawang taon akong naka-ban dito sa probinsyang sinilangan. Liban sa pagiging tamad ko at batugan, pagdating sa paghanap ng pinapangarap kong trabaho ay masyadong mapili at maarte ako.

Saan ba ako pupulutin ng disposisyon kong ito. *Linsyak gusto kong magtino pero ang hirap hirap. Sa araw-araw na gumigising ako, unti-unti rin akong kinakain ng hiya sa sarili at sa magulang ko. Pakiramdam ko kasi masyado pa akong bata para pasanin ang isang responsibilidad na agad-agad naipatong sa akin. Bakit ba kasi hindi nalang ako nabuhay kung saan ang pamilya ko ay may sariling kumpanya na multi-milyon ang halaga. Syempre ilusyon ko lamang iyon, masaya naman ako sa kung anong meron ako ngayon kaya nga lang ang panahon hindi nakikisama. Isang buwan nalang, hayaan nyo akong magbulakbol at gawin ang lahat kong naisin. Pagkatapos nito, hindi na ako mangagako, hahanapin at hahabulin ko na ang aking swerte. Maging ano man ang aking kahinatnan, tatanggapin ko ito ng buong-buong at sisiguraduhing aangat ako balang araw: magiging isang sikat at hahangaan ako ng maraming tao, higit sa lahat ipagmamalaki ako ng mama at papa ko. 

Kaya ngayon, walang sawa muna akong magtatampisaw at maliligo sa ulan hangga't maari. Salamat dumating na ang buwan ng Mayo nabawas-bawasan ang init ng aking ulo. At sa darating na Hunyo, alam kong suswertihin ako, dahil Birthday ko, magwiwish akong makahanap na ako ng TRABAHO!

Share ko lang kasi mukhang walang kwenta na ang pinagsusulat ko sa taas. Para naman ma-inspire ko kayo pati na rin ang sarili ko. Pampalubag pala ng loob, nabasa ko lang sa blog ng isang makulit na kaibigan ko. Wish me luck yow! :)